Comments on: I am rude, therefore I am strong http://afarid.wordpress.com/2008/04/12/i-am-rude-therefore-i-am-strong/ Unleashing Thoughts Thu, 23 Apr 2009 22:22:25 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Ahmad Farid http://afarid.wordpress.com/2008/04/12/i-am-rude-therefore-i-am-strong/#comment-41 Ahmad Farid Wed, 28 Jan 2009 12:10:56 +0000 http://afarid.wordpress.com/?p=7#comment-41 @ Sally Well, yeah all of us encounter some troubles in out life that makes us fly into a rage sometimes. But still that's not an excuse for treating a person in a mean way. But I get what you mean and I do agree with it. I just wished they could change somehow. If they thought in a different way they'll find life much easier. <i>I pity them and I find myself treating them with a gentle smile.</i> Find excuses for people but don't find for yourself. Thanks for your comment and for being interested in checking and reading the post :) @fw!tema Thank you for your compliment and passing by :) Yeah you are true. We should begin with ourselves though. @ Sally
Well, yeah all of us encounter some troubles in out life that makes us fly into a rage sometimes. But still that’s not an excuse for treating a person in a mean way. But I get what you mean and I do agree with it. I just wished they could change somehow. If they thought in a different way they’ll find life much easier. I pity them and I find myself treating them with a gentle smile. Find excuses for people but don’t find for yourself.
Thanks for your comment and for being interested in checking and reading the post :)

@fw!tema
Thank you for your compliment and passing by :) Yeah you are true. We should begin with ourselves though.

]]> By: fwitema http://afarid.wordpress.com/2008/04/12/i-am-rude-therefore-i-am-strong/#comment-40 fwitema Wed, 28 Jan 2009 11:50:13 +0000 http://afarid.wordpress.com/?p=7#comment-40 it is a very very nice post i think that u r right ahmed whatever happens we should not give ourselves or other the right to shout just coz we are stressed or angry it is a very very nice post
i think that u r right ahmed
whatever happens we should not give ourselves or other the right to shout just coz we are stressed or angry

]]> By: sally http://afarid.wordpress.com/2008/04/12/i-am-rude-therefore-i-am-strong/#comment-37 sally Sat, 15 Nov 2008 08:46:48 +0000 http://afarid.wordpress.com/?p=7#comment-37 mmm .. I've always thought like you .. I've always kept my mouth shut when I faced a situation like those or apologised with a smile and walked away .. till one day I was soooo stressed and I found myself 3'asb 3anni shouting to a man who was shouting to me men 3'er 7a2 .. I was really surprised of myself and decided to watch my actions even more when I am stressed .. but as Mahmoud said, people who do so are REALLY stressed in everything in their lives .. Its not an excuse ofcourse, but some ppl are very simple minded and cant understand the fact that they are doing so bcz of stress .. Since then whenever I see a situation like this or even if it happens to me (I mean I find sm1 who is shouting to me), I pity them and I find myself treating them with a gentle smile .. because I remember myself back then .. People like those are'nt rude bcz they think they will be strong, but they are the most ppl in need to a smile and a "ma3lesh" .. mmm .. I’ve always thought like you .. I’ve always kept my mouth shut when I faced a situation like those or apologised with a smile and walked away .. till one day I was soooo stressed and I found myself 3′asb 3anni shouting to a man who was shouting to me men 3′er 7a2 .. I was really surprised of myself and decided to watch my actions even more when I am stressed .. but as Mahmoud said, people who do so are REALLY stressed in everything in their lives .. Its not an excuse ofcourse, but some ppl are very simple minded and cant understand the fact that they are doing so bcz of stress ..
Since then whenever I see a situation like this or even if it happens to me (I mean I find sm1 who is shouting to me), I pity them and I find myself treating them with a gentle smile .. because I remember myself back then ..
People like those are’nt rude bcz they think they will be strong, but they are the most ppl in need to a smile and a “ma3lesh” ..

]]> By: Web Quotes and Counterpoints VII | Adam Pieniazek http://afarid.wordpress.com/2008/04/12/i-am-rude-therefore-i-am-strong/#comment-31 Web Quotes and Counterpoints VII | Adam Pieniazek Tue, 08 Jul 2008 07:38:54 +0000 http://afarid.wordpress.com/?p=7#comment-31 [...] witnessed an interaction on a bus between the driver and a passenger that was rude on both parts. Ahmad makes a dark realization that: Two people who have never seen anything bad from the other are just treating each other as [...] [...] witnessed an interaction on a bus between the driver and a passenger that was rude on both parts. Ahmad makes a dark realization that: Two people who have never seen anything bad from the other are just treating each other as [...]

]]> By: NameIsRequired http://afarid.wordpress.com/2008/04/12/i-am-rude-therefore-i-am-strong/#comment-13 NameIsRequired Fri, 25 Apr 2008 22:16:50 +0000 http://afarid.wordpress.com/?p=7#comment-13 Interesting subject, First off, let me say I'm not rude or anything..actually most of ppl know me say that I'm too nice..sometimes more than I should be.. That didn't work for Egypt, that's what I realized after settling in Egypt 1.7 year ago. It's a country, where you just can't be nice to some people! FACT! You will have to accept it, I did. btw, I'm on 2nd year too but never heard of you :] Interesting subject,
First off, let me say I’m not rude or anything..actually most of ppl know me say that I’m too nice..sometimes more than I should be..
That didn’t work for Egypt, that’s what I realized after settling in Egypt 1.7 year ago.
It’s a country, where you just can’t be nice to some people! FACT! You will have to accept it, I did.

btw, I’m on 2nd year too but never heard of you :]

]]> By: Ahmad Farid http://afarid.wordpress.com/2008/04/12/i-am-rude-therefore-i-am-strong/#comment-10 Ahmad Farid Thu, 17 Apr 2008 10:50:34 +0000 http://afarid.wordpress.com/?p=7#comment-10 Welcome at anytime dude. Don't worry about the length, I do like long comments. I'm still not that busy to skim through it. I appreciate what people have, but that doesn't change concepts. If that happened once it's okay, but not everyday, isn't it? What about you? Why won't you reach it with me? Work hard & be a teacher assistant. nefsi fe mo3eed b2a ashofo beyet7awwel men taleb le mo3eed. Welcome at anytime dude. Don’t worry about the length, I do like long comments. I’m still not that busy to skim through it.
I appreciate what people have, but that doesn’t change concepts. If that happened once it’s okay, but not everyday, isn’t it?
What about you? Why won’t you reach it with me? Work hard & be a teacher assistant. nefsi fe mo3eed b2a ashofo beyet7awwel men taleb le mo3eed.

]]> By: Mahmoud Osama http://afarid.wordpress.com/2008/04/12/i-am-rude-therefore-i-am-strong/#comment-9 Mahmoud Osama Tue, 15 Apr 2008 17:28:07 +0000 http://afarid.wordpress.com/?p=7#comment-9 Mr Farid , , Nice Blog Sir , I didn't notice you made a blog except few days ago but i was so busy to read , but today i had the chance at last :) . Well , I totally agree with you in every word you said , but don't be so harsh on these people , if this situation happened 50 years ago between the same two people and the same bus , they wouldn't have done the same reaction at all. Nowadays everyone is so pressured from everything in life , everywhere is crowded , no one is well paid - am saying no one as the majority is - , the top authority doesn't really respect the people so everyone feels that he is hated and so he always reacts aggressively , there are many many reasons we -Egyptians- became like that , i am still with you , these people are really weak and should act strong. God bless Egypt and Save us from those who made us like that. Sorry for the Very long comment :D :D and Good Luck in your blog and reaching the acm-ICPC word finals ;) Mr Farid , ,

Nice Blog Sir , I didn’t notice you made a blog except few days ago but i was so busy to read , but today i had the chance at last :) .

Well , I totally agree with you in every word you said , but don’t be so harsh on these people , if this situation happened 50 years ago between the same two people and the same bus , they wouldn’t have done the same reaction at all. Nowadays everyone is so pressured from everything in life , everywhere is crowded , no one is well paid – am saying no one as the majority is – , the top authority doesn’t really respect the people so everyone feels that he is hated and so he always reacts aggressively , there are many many reasons we -Egyptians- became like that , i am still with you , these people are really weak and should act strong.
God bless Egypt and Save us from those who made us like that.

Sorry for the Very long comment :D :D and Good Luck in your blog and reaching the acm-ICPC word finals ;)

]]> By: afarid http://afarid.wordpress.com/2008/04/12/i-am-rude-therefore-i-am-strong/#comment-5 afarid Sun, 13 Apr 2008 21:07:12 +0000 http://afarid.wordpress.com/?p=7#comment-5 thx 4 the motivation for my dump blog. still brand new we lessa maddarabsh fiha mofak :D bas ma32oola 3addeti el acm men 3'er 7aga keda. di ma3moola ma7'soos 3ashan asmaa magdi. ana olt enti el hat2olili ah yalla netla3 :p thx 4 the motivation for my dump blog. still brand new we lessa maddarabsh fiha mofak :D

bas ma32oola 3addeti el acm men 3′er 7aga keda. di ma3moola ma7’soos 3ashan asmaa magdi. ana olt enti el hat2olili ah yalla netla3 :p

]]> By: Asmaa Magdi http://afarid.wordpress.com/2008/04/12/i-am-rude-therefore-i-am-strong/#comment-3 Asmaa Magdi Sun, 13 Apr 2008 21:00:37 +0000 http://afarid.wordpress.com/?p=7#comment-3 This is a gr8 post really. The thing I liked the most about it is this sentence: "Two people who have never seen anything bad from the other are just treating each other as enemies". U r right in every word u said and btw I think that those people who do so r extremely weak. They follow something like "7'odohom bel soot la ye3'leboko". and el soot here means anything that is aggressive. Nice post, keep it up (Y) This is a gr8 post really. The thing I liked the most about it is this sentence:
“Two people who have never seen anything bad from the other are just treating each other as enemies”.

U r right in every word u said and btw I think that those people who do so r extremely weak. They follow something like “7′odohom bel soot la ye3′leboko”. and el soot here means anything that is aggressive.

Nice post, keep it up (Y)

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